The transition from 'I' to 'We'
I am never the one to ponder about the what ifs and had nots bordering around the mushy romance talks which girls in general have a natural affinity for and my better half in particular!! Somehow all the effort that would go in thinking such thoughts in the first place has always managed to elicit a perfect yawn from me (the cause of many instances wherein I had to pacify my wife by actually showing interest. Feigning it just won't suffice!) Nevertheless in the short span that I have been married (read "we have been married") I have realized that there are certain things that need to be thought about... Not that I am being coaxed into writing this but it took a few instances not too very pleasant but necessary ones to firmly entrench in my thick skull a thing or two about caring not just for me but about us! I always felt that I was on top of how to make my partner comfortable in the new environ. However I did not realize that what I was doing ...